Happy first day of Fall!
Although I hate cold weather, I love most of what comes with it:
apple picking adventures, warm cuddly sweaters, mug after mug of tea, and most importantly... the holidays.
Though it may surprise you that it's not because of the presents...
If you want to give me something for Christmas or my birthday (it's in June so you've got plenty of time to brainstorm), call me up and schedule a coffee date. Get a bunch of people together (including me) and start a book club. Plant a garden (for me or really in your own backyard because I already have one). Knowing that you're doing good in honor of my birthday is a much better present than any material thing (believe me, my love for whatever you buy will decrease 10 fold the next time I move halfway across the country....) If you really want to contribute materially to my life, I'll give you a list of things I recently bought and you can contribute money to the thing of your choice. Case in point: I just recently bought "The Hunger Games" and a pair of hiking boots --> Hello Christmas presents in August (I thought when Christmas came early it came in July....)
I've actually been trying to incorporate this kind of gift giving into my own life, and not just for unselfish, change-the-world kind of reasons. You see, I'm really bad at picking out presents for people. It might be because I hate shopping or because when I give someone something I want it to really mean something and to find anything to buy that fits that category is difficult. So instead, my presents are often homemade crafts or baked goods. Crafts tend to be labors of love, not just the monetary value of your friendship, and banana bread is the easiest go-to present of all time. Baked goods are my absolute favorite presents because I love baking, what I bake is actually pretty yummy, and it isn't just a material object that may or may not end up on the highest shelf of the hall closet to collect dust after a couple months.
So as the weather gets colder, stores put out first Thanksgiving and then Christmas decorations WAY too far in advance, and people start nagging you about wish lists, think about going to the grocery store for gift-making supplies. A nice little bonus to this approach: you'll never again have to fight with Black Friday crowds. You could probably still go shopping on Black Friday and avoid the crowds, at least if you stick to smaller, exclusively food grocery stores and avoid ones that have everything (like Fred Meyer, Meijer, Kroger, Stop 'n Shop)















